Attached are my final schematic and hardware connection. Basically i think you need to buy the data cable for T630/610 because their pin outs are too close to each other. I would not recommend you to try soldering jumpers onto them as the pins may be damaged easily due to high heat. The PIC circuitry is the part you want to focus on. Basically, once you have ur data cable, the connection to PIC is fairly simple as shown in phone2.jpg. This is more of programming project. You need to be able to interface your phone and PIC correctly to communicate with other. Hardware is fairly simple, but finding the cable may be a pain as it is almost obselete. Good luck.
P/S : there is no need for a MAX232 or voltage logic converter. PIC16F877A is good enough.