Hi,
first of all, I never used this controller, so I'm not an expert for this device. But I reviewed the manual (home.comet.bg/datasheets/LCD%20Grafical/T6963c.pdf ) and saw, that the controller has a 8bit data bus (d0-d7) and write (w), read (r) and chip select (ce) signals.
After a initialization/configuration phase you can send certain commands to the display e.g. write charater and increment cursor position. But if you want to write a character at a certain position, you have to send the command set coursor position. As parameter you can specify the x,y position.
Kind regards,
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