Re: transistor switch
One option is that you could use a double pole relay and use the other switch to permanently turn on the relay by bypassing the transistor.
Another option is to use a SCR, by connecting the gate to transistor emitter(assuming you are using a npn transistor) and grounding the cathode and connecting the anode to the relay terminal which was previously connected to the collector. Also use a pull down resistor to the emitter.
Hope this helped.