Even if you use a 3dB coupler, the signal which will pass through will be attenuated some and the other one will also be attenuated 3dB+.
So, you will loose in either case.
Additional to this, the frequency band is large and there will absolutely be ripples/flatness in coupler frequency response and therefore the result might be worse than expected. Also, isolation problem will arise due to limited coupling range and this will impose an impact over a signal by the other.
The best option is to use a well and carefully designed/obtained Combiner/Divider. This will bring at least 15-20 dB isolation.