there are a lot of information about drive 3310 lcd with an avr microcontroller on the internet,
but how can i drive it with an 8051 or 8052 microcontroller?
AFAIK the Nokia LCD uses an SPI (clock+data); you will have to simulate this in software. Look for some AVR code written in C and translate it for the 8051.
SPI is common on Motorola processors; there will be some data on the Motorola website, e.g. the 68332 has an SPI.