Load capacitance - ussualy defined as max. load capacitance - is maximal capacitance, which can be driven by the pin(concerned with max pulse current of the pin).
Input and output capacitances - internal IC capacitances, this affects operation speed.
input capacitance is the capacitance offered to the driving signal.
Output capacitance is the capability of the output driver i.e. if output capacitance is 50pF, it can drive a maximum of 5 loads of 10pF input capacitance.