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If you want a quick and dirty tutorial, try Sullivan, although it's pretty narrow and has some typos. Taflove/Hagness is a great full reference with much of what you could use without actually being a researcher. Sadiku also has a decent book that describes several numerical methods including FDTD, but if you're only interested in FDTD, Taflove will have most of what you want.